Virtual Making Love Retreat (Level 1)
This retreat has been nicknamed, “48 hours of bliss!”
- Do you and your spouse want to experience more sexual happiness in your bedroom, while emotionally connecting as real lovers?
- Do you want to better understand your body’s sexual response to touch? How about your spouse’s sexual response to touch?
- Do you long to feel energized and fulfilled sexually in your marriage?
- Are you ready to claim the passionate joy you were designed to experience as husband and wife?
If you answered “Yes!” to any of these questions, then a Making Love Retreat (Live or Virtual) is for you!
What You Will Learn
Session one
Erogenous Zones
Tammy will specifically describe more than 1000 places and ways of touching that provide pleasure! Then she will give you homework, that you both get to do together during the next 12 hours! This is a perfect time for you to learn more about giving and receiving sexual pleasure.
At the end of this session Tammy will give you fun “homework” to practice together before meeting for Session 2.Â
Session two
Introduction to Tantric Sex
Tantric Love Making is also known as slow sex. Tammy will teach you the philosophy, as well as the benefits of practicing slow sex in your marriage. She will provide you will specific homework for you and your spouse to try for the next 7 hours! This is a perfect time to explore together ways of slowing sex down for greater emotional and sexual connection.
Once again, you will receive some fun homework from Tammy.
Session three
Practices to Remain Orgasmic
You’ve heard of orgasm, but do you know how to be orgasmic? This session will be filled with sexual touches and techniques that keep the fire burning in your relationship. Sexual (Eros) energy can be built and sustained in a marriage when couples learn how to retain this creative energy. You’ll start feeling like you are engaged and newly married again!
This will be the conclusion of our retreat. Tammy encourages couples to set aside another night without distractions to practice more of the techniques she teaches.
Frequently Asked Questions
How do I schedule 48 hours alone with my spouse?
One of the important aspects of the Virtual Making Love Retreat is being alone. Learning and practicing techniques are part of the plan. Tammy shares the dates of these retreats early specifically so that couples can plan how to create this alone time and space. Your marriage relationship needs to be a first priority. Planning and scheduling for this retreat is an indication that you are putting effort and time into your marriage.
What if I have a baby?
This may not be the right time for you to participate in the retreat. If your baby is healthy and a good sleeper perhaps this will work for your situation. Remember, the intention is to have quality time building your sexual relationship. This happens best when you create alone space and time.
How private is this retreat?
Tammy has taught and attended many retreats. In many of these live retreats you are actively engaging with other couples. Tammy feels that there are frequently questions or comments that cross-the-line in privacy. One of the beautiful things about this retreat is the privacy. You don’t know who else is participating. You never have to turn on your computer camera. You can stay mute. You can change the name of your screensaver. Many couples who have attended past retreats have commented on the high quality privacy that this retreat provides.
Why do you do this retreat?
Great question! Tammy believes in marriage! She also believes that one of the greatest joys we can claim in life is found through sexual pleasure and erotic passion in marriage. Tammy wants to strengthen couples sexually so that they can stand together in facing the labors involved with family life. Scientific research is conclusive that couples who have frequent and satisfying sex have the most resilient and happy marriages.
Tammy knows that by consecrating time, energy, and other resources into the sexual aspect of your marriage, you will be happier and stronger together. In this, she is fulfilling one of my passions–strengthening marriages.
How does it work?
On Friday evening we will have our first guided session. Tammy will teach a 90 minute session. Then you have time together to practice what you’ve been taught. If at any time you have questions, please email tammy@tammyhill.com and she will anonymously answer your questions at the beginning of the next session. Saturday mid morning and Saturday evening we will meet again for 90 minutes each session. Again Tammy will teach new information and allow time for you to practice the “homework” while you’re alone together.
Technically the retreat ends around 9 pm on Saturday evening. Tammy encourages couples to have Saturday night and Sunday morning alone together for further practice. This is important, quality time, to strengthen the sexual aspect of your marriage.
Can we stay home?
Absolutely! Tammy intentionally keeps the price of this retreat low so that couples in every stage of life can afford to learn. You can choose to stay home alone or find a place that is alone together to participate in this retreat.
Will this be recorded?
No. Tammy does not record her presentations. This is one of the reasons that the  price of attendance is intentionally kept low.
How much does this cost?
Another great question! $235 for 5 hours with Tammy! In couples sex therapy she generally charges $245/50 minute session. And although this is NOT therapy, Tammy’s time in teaching is obviously at a great discount. Tammy keeps her fee low because sbhe wants to bless as many marriages possible.
What are your credentials?
Tammy is a licensed Marriage & Family Therapist, an AASECT (American Association of Sexual Educators, Counselors, and Therapists) member, and a former faculty member for the School of Family Life at Brigham Young University. She has spent the past 12 years teaching and conducting therapy with both individuals and couples. Tammy is also a wife, mother and grandmother.
What Others Are Saying
Still have questions?
Do you have lingering questions or concerns about how Virtual Making Love Retreats work? Send Tammy a DM on Instagram at @tammy_hill_lmft or email her directly at tammy@tammyhill.com.